Ep. 104: Stop Waiting to Be Chosen — Give Yourself What You Want

What if the only thing standing between you and your godly husband… is you?

In this episode, Michelle delivers the truth that changes everything for single Christian women: the women who get married don’t wait to be chosen—they choose themselves.

Hear how one client went from single to ring shopping in just seven months, and the mindset shift that made it happen.

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Transcript

Michelle Joiner (00:26)
Hey, hey sis, someone asked me this week what the number one way is to guarantee that my coaching works, to guarantee that they actually meet their husband. And I want to share with you what the answer is that you already instinctively know.

the number one way to meet your handsome, godly, high caliber husband is to know what you want and to give it to yourself. And I want you to think that that answer has always been the case for everything in your life, whether or not it was schooling or career or the body that you wanted. You knew what you wanted and nothing stopped you from

going after it. I see so many smart, successful women who want to close the gap, the knowledge gap, the mindset gap, the strategy gap of where they are right now and where they want to be in a godly marriage with a man that adores them. They want that result, but they aren't giving it to themselves.

They aren't giving themselves what they need to get that result. Because the women that I coach who do get married, the ones who text me photos of gorgeous wedding rings, I have a client who went ring shopping with her boyfriend last night. They've only been together for seven months and he's already proposing.

The women who get that result, they have one thing in common. They knew what they wanted and they give it to themselves. They aren't more special than you. They aren't luckier. They aren't younger and they aren't prettier. They're not the exception. They just made a decision about who they were going to be.

and they invested in themselves, they made choices because they knew what they wanted. They made choices to leave behind behaviors that was holding them back. They made choices to learn things, to change, and to behave in a way that draws in the high caliber man of their dreams. They made choices to step out of their comfort zones to sacrifice.

And now they're married. And so, sis, what do you want? Do you want to meet the love of your life and be ring shopping six to seven months from now? Do you want to wake up next year with a husband in your heart and in your home instead of a year of just almost or the same?

Because if nothing changes, nothing changes, and you already know that. There's a reason you feel pulled toward me. You might not even know exactly why, you just know. Michelle has what I need. And I'm telling you the difference between women who stay single and women who get married is simple. Married women made the decision to give themselves what they wanted.

every single time, no matter how hard it was, no matter how much fear they had to overcome. So sis, the door to my private one-on-one coaching is open. If you know what you want, if you know it's marriage, if you know you're done repeating the same year over and over again, then step in. I wanna see you giving yourself what your heart has been craving.